These days you'll find many manuals and reading materials who claim to guarantee you a success in dating. Most of these publications are a hoax since it's an era of online dating. No one can waste his or her time in the conventional and obsolete ways of old style dating.

Online dating has made it easier to find some one. Still many feel hesitation in doing so. While others don't get so much success although they try hard in online dating. If you follow the following three tips, it is guaranteed that you will be a player in online dating.

Your online dating profile speaks volumes about your personality. People mostly judge others by the quality of content present on their online profiles. Your profile should radiate truth and love. Never give very personal details in your profile. Also don't over-exaggerate yourself or boost about your personality in these profiles. Just be true to your actual style and write the actual description. Also include nice pictures of yours. You'll see huge hits on your profile by following these steps.

Online dating is a game of exposure. The more you interact with others, the greater the chances of meeting some one special. Try to visit online dating sites as maximum as possible. At least two to three daily session on these sites guarantee success. Chat rooms are the best facility to get in touch with thousands of other members. You can find your date by interacting with like minded people while chatting and can also start private chat sessions with your potential mates.

The third and most important tip that guarantees success in online dating is the truthfulness and decency. Never try to be over excited while interacting with others. Also you should never tell any lies about your personality. All you need is just be yourself while having online dates

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Once you begin shopping for an online dating site to join you will realize just how many dating sites there are! Just like everything else there are good ones and bad ones. So, keep your eye open and your wallet shut until you are sure!

Here are just a few dating sites to avoid...

Avoid the dating site that asks for your credit card before you can set up a free trial profile. (They will later charge your card because you didn't cancel your free trial in a timely manner. But they didn't tell you the cancellation had to be by mail!)

Avoid the site with limited search options. This will allow you to customize and narrow your results. This will let you concentrate on the singles that fit your requirements. Many sites will not have extensive search option to mask the fact that they do not have as large of a member base as they proclaim.

Avoid the site that does not show the last time a member logged in. Many sites will keep members on their site indefinitely. Why? Because the member never took the time to tell the site to cancel their membership. Most of us singles do not formally tell the site to remove us from their member roster. We just stop logging in or we let our paid membership lapse.

I discovered the hard way the "membership game" a lot of online dating sites use. When your membership expires and your profile is still up? The site will then "reclass" your profile back to "free trial". Not only is your profile still visible but you will still get mail! Then one day you will get an email from the site administrator that you have mail. You go to check it out and your mail box is full! But, once again you can't access all of these emails unless you renew your membership. "...and do they have a great renewal rate for you. For today only!"

Once you learn how to spot the scams you will know how to avoid certain dating sites!

Arm yourself with the necessary online dating skills and you will have the time of your life!

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Why not just try the tested and the real one?

Absolutely! It shows a fun side to you. Online flirting should be harmless and not in the least bit offensive or suggestive.

Flirting should be stemmed from a genuine compliment. That is why I always suggest that you take the time to study the profile and pictures of the person you are interested in...

It will give you a little insight into who this "stranger" is.

A lot of singles think flirting always has to be a compliment about a person's physical appearance. But if all you have is a "head shot" it wouldn't make sense to comment on their legs, and their physic!

A "flirt" should be flattering! There are other parts to the singles you will be meeting online. Flirting goes deeper...

Their profile may state the different volunteer programs they are involved in. In their photo album you may find several pictures of litters of cats and dogs. Are they a breeder? Do you notice more than one photo of them surrounded by exotic flowers? Are they an avid gardener? Have you always envied those skills?

As you can see, their profile and photos hold the keys to lots of areas that can be complimented on.

However, remember nothing is more flattering than a truly sincere compliment!

If you aren't sure what you are going to say is a flattering, heartfelt compliment? To be safe, don't say it.

If the opening photo is clear enough to see certain facial features, by all means compliment them!

Please be careful...a lot of singles online are sensitive. If you choose to comment on their eyes, make sure they aren't cross eyed! They will think you are teasing them about something they can't help. In this case, instead of making a "generic" compliment like;" Wow! What a pair of eyes!" Instead try; "Your eyes appear to be a beautiful shade of green. I'm I right?"

This is more heartfelt and sincere! Yes by all means you should flirt online! It may start off a little awkward at first, but with practice and caution, you will get good at it!

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The advancement in technology has not only led to economical growth but has also proved to be a medium of developing new relations for people. Free dating websites are a fine example where people unknown to each other meet, share their views, ideas, choices, likes and dislikes. These may prove a lifelong bonding for them.

Choosing the Best Dating Site

There are many dating sites available on web these days and one must choose the best website by avoiding frauds and scams. A professional free dating website should have various characteristics to attract users towards it. Some of these are -

Everything Free

The chief feature of these sites should be that it should not charge any fee from its members in any criteria. The criteria includes-

Free to Join

In these sites, the member should not be charged any fee for joining it. Usually in other dating sites, a set amount has to be paid before joining the site. Some sites also provide free trial offers for a given period. This is not the case in these sites.

Free Search and Contact

Moreover, these free dating websites also provide its members with the ability to search other members according to the filtered requirements and email them without charging from them. Unlike, in some dating sites, where they don't charge its members for joining it but to contact other members, the user has to be a paid member.

Free Blogs and Forum

The members of these sites should be able to write blogs and forums on the site without any fee. In this way, members can convey about themselves to other users.

Organizing the details

Being a free site, these sites may attract many members towards it and as a result there will be innumerable users on the site. Organizing the details of all the members is a tedious job for the site holders. The profiles have to be sought out according to age, qualifications, and requirements.

Careful Matchmaker

Organizing the profiles doesn't mean that the job is finished. A free dating website ought to be a careful matchmaker too. It should have the potential to carefully arrange all the profiles in such a manner that other members can easily find a suitable match by filling down their requirements.

Keeping Records

Besides organizing and arranging the profiles, these sites should also be able to track records of members who visit others' profile and then let it be known to the user whose profile has been visited. This way it leads to a two-way communication for users. They come to know who is interested in their profile and can contact them, if interested.

Catering to Everyone's Need

There are number of sites available online these days. It entirely depends on the user what kind of site he/she is looking for. Some people join it for fun, some for finding true friends, and others in search of a soul mate. A free dating website should take care of everyone's interests which are primarily responsible for them joining it.

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Is is safe?

Posted by Melvin | 3:45 AM | | 0 comments »

There is no simple answer regarding flirting online.But there are a few guidelines you may want to consider when it comes to flirting safely online.

There is casual flirting online, based on the types of responses you receive, will let you know if you are in the "safety zone".

Once you have found someone you are interested in, send a simple flirt..."While wandering around, I saw your light was on. I decided to poke my head in and say hello. I was quite disappointed to see you weren't there. I was hoping to add a slight twinkle to your beautiful eyes. When you return, please take the time to let me know. I am looking forward to your visit..."

If you receive any of the following replies, it is meant strictly for shock value. Don't even respond. Just block them...and move on.

A reply that makes you blush...

A photo of their genitals...

A blatant, sexual proposition...

A request for nude photos of you...

A necked description of themselves...

A description of their mental picture of you necked...

A rude comment about your picture...

It is safe to date online...if you stay in control.

Do not take it personal, I'm sure they respond to everyone that way. At one time, I did a little investigation and discovered that the person sending me the above replies was married and wasn't looking for a relationship. He entertained himself this way...he loved all of the various shocked replies and rebukes he received. It's just a game...you can refuse to play by not responding.

Eventually I received an email that said; "why didn't your respond?"

I replied, "But, I did respond." We went back and forth with "no you didn't" and the "yes I did!" for a while. My final reply was; "My lack of response, was my response!"

Yes, it is safe to flirt online. You just have to know the game, and how to spot the players!

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How to flirt

Posted by Melvin | 4:08 AM | , | 0 comments »

Flirting online takes creativity. As we know, flirting should stem from a compliment. Offline we are able to "see" things that can be complimented on. We are at a disadvantage online. Yes we have a profile picture, but the pictures can still be slightly deceiving. So, where do we go from here...?

The first step to flirting online is, by taking the time to actually read their profile. Hopefully their profile is set up correctly and you will have a "view" into who they are.

What do they like to do? Are they a soccer mom/dad? Do they selflessly volunteer? Are they extremely political? What causes and injustices do they fight for? But you will only have these answers if you thoroughly read their profile!

Another step to flirting online is their photos. If the person took the time to post photos in their online photo album, they are proud of what the pictures show. Are there pictures of them in their rose garden? Are they surrounded by a wide variety of pets? Is there a picture of them singing in a church choir?

One of the 3 steps to flirting online is being observant. Be aware of other people. When it comes to flirting online, you can't be self centered.

A sincere compliment will totally exclude you. "I am really a civic minded person. I can be found picketing for any worth while cause. I am really into wildlife preservation....so; I bet you are a real giving person. What types of causes are you involved in?" You might be surprised how many singles call that a compliment! Well let me tell you...it is not a compliment!

Never forget, one of the main steps to flirting online is making sure the flirt stems from a sincere compliment!

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