Flirting online takes creativity. As we know, flirting should stem from a compliment. Offline we are able to "see" things that can be complimented on. We are at a disadvantage online. Yes we have a profile picture, but the pictures can still be slightly deceiving. So, where do we go from here...?
The first step to flirting online is, by taking the time to actually read their profile. Hopefully their profile is set up correctly and you will have a "view" into who they are.
What do they like to do? Are they a soccer mom/dad? Do they selflessly volunteer? Are they extremely political? What causes and injustices do they fight for? But you will only have these answers if you thoroughly read their profile!
Another step to flirting online is their photos. If the person took the time to post photos in their online photo album, they are proud of what the pictures show. Are there pictures of them in their rose garden? Are they surrounded by a wide variety of pets? Is there a picture of them singing in a church choir?
One of the 3 steps to flirting online is being observant. Be aware of other people. When it comes to flirting online, you can't be self centered.
A sincere compliment will totally exclude you. "I am really a civic minded person. I can be found picketing for any worth while cause. I am really into wildlife preservation....so; I bet you are a real giving person. What types of causes are you involved in?" You might be surprised how many singles call that a compliment! Well let me tell you...it is not a compliment!
Never forget, one of the main steps to flirting online is making sure the flirt stems from a sincere compliment!
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